If you have chosen to send CLA a gift, such as a shop order or an Amazon wish list purchase, while your children are eating frozen or microwaved meals or you are struggling to fund their Christmas, you need to reconsider your priorities. Spending money you don't have on someone you don't know, instead of on your children, is irresponsible. Please put your children's needs first before a woman that doesn't even know you exist.
It's pathetic.